Showing posts with label dream. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dream. Show all posts

Sunday, November 13, 2016

A Thought on Flag Burning

There’s been a lot about flag burning in the news and on social media lately. There have been cries from well-meaning patriots to outlaw the practice, impose fines and jail time, and even make it a felony. While I personally find the act reprehensible, I think there’s more than at stake here that just what appears on the surface.

For better or worse, the flag has different meanings to us all. Some see it as a sign of freedom. Some see it as a sign of nationalism. Others a sign of racial inequality. Some simply see it as the standard of the United States of America. But to others, it means so much more. To some, the flag represents their hero; their son, daughter, mother or father, brother or sister, husband or wife, who gave their life in the service of their country. It drapes their coffin and stands as a symbol that their life had purpose and their death was not in vain. It represents the promise of the American People to families of the fallen that we will never forget their sacrifice and that we are forever grateful for their service and that we owe them a debt that can never be repaid.

To others, the flag represents American Exceptionalism, or the idea that the United States of America is the greatest country in the world. To those that subscribe to this belief, the flag stands as a symbol of hope, courage, bravery, and the freedom to pursue one’s dreams. It stands for life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. It stands as a stark reminder of all the times America has stood up against the evil forces of the world and said “Not on my watch.” It reminds them of all the good our country has done and continues to do. It represents the movement to bring freedom to all peoples of the world.

Still to others, the flag is seen in other, more negative ways. It reminds them of the faults of our country and the difficulties we still continue to face. It reminds them that inequality, poverty, and discrimination still exist even after all these years. In those red stripes, they see the protests, crime, violence, and injustice that sometimes plagues us as a nation.  They feel marginalized, hated, and victimized because their American Dream has turned out to be a nightmare.

The thing about our flag though is it represents all of these views and they are all legitimate. Our flag is a symbol of who we are as a nation, as a culture, and as a people. It represents us all. It represents the liberty that we have to have our own opinions and views on any topic we wish and to express that opinion without fear of reprisal or censorship. It represents our freedom. And to me, that is worth protecting.

To those who seek to outlaw flag burning, I get it. It’s about respect and honor. But if we did that, we lose a part of who we are. There’s a quote from Star Trek: The Next Generation that reads: "With the first link, the chain is forged. The first speech censured...the first thought forbidden...the first freedom denied – chains us all, irrevocably."

If we outlaw flag burning, we take away peoples’ rights to self-expression and we limit freedom. To me, that’s a blow to who we are, and to what makes America great. Sometimes this is what our freedom costs. Sometimes it means looking right in the eye of someone doing something you hate, and respecting their right do it. It means trusting in our Constitution. It means recognizing that those that fought and died for us, fought and died for them too and for them to have the right to do what they are doing.  Freedom is costly. Freedom is messy and sometimes uncomfortable, but I can promise you, it IS worth it.


“Don’t let anyone tell you that America’s best days are behind her, that the American Spirit has been vanquished. We’ve seen is triumph too often in our lives to stop believing in it now.” – Ronald Reagan

Sunday, March 24, 2013

A Thought on Wishes


I was recently discussing future plans with a friend and I made the comment: “I wish.” She said “Nope, it's not a wish or it always will be. It's got to be a plan.” While I think there’s some truth to that statement, I think she misunderstood my definition of a wish. A lot of people say “I wish…” sarcastically, as a remark when the possibility of accomplishing whatever task they are talking about is so remote, that it is out of the likelihood of possibility. But I disagree. I think that a wish is a hope for something better and there is a quiet power in that kind of hope. That kind of power is within all of us. It enables us to perform miracles and overcome difficult circumstances to accomplish our hopes and dreams. When we tap into it, we are strengthened and uplifted. It helps us to reach our greatest potential.

In a famous Disney song, it is said that “a dream is a wish your heart makes.” Could you think of a more honest and intimate manifestation of our desires? On the outside, we censor ourselves. We deny ourselves happiness. But when we hope, dream, and wish, we open ourselves to our truest, rawest, and deepest selves. We open ourselves to the possibility of finding true happiness. And that is a beautiful thing. So go wish on a star, or cast a penny into the water. Take the chance of changing your outlook. You never know what dreams might come true.

Tuesday, January 1, 2013

A Thought on New Year's.

New Year’s, contrary to what those closest to me think, is actually my favorite holiday. It is a day dedicated to the notion of Hope. Hope. It’s such a simple concept and yet it is at the same time, so complex and so powerful. It is said, that with Hope, all things are possible. I believe in that statement, because at the end of the day, even through Life’s greatest struggles, if we can hold on to Hope, we can endure. We can climb back out of the deepest, darkest places in our lives and rise again, stronger than ever before.
I find it fitting that New Year’s is both a celebration of the New as well as the Old. One cannot exist without the other. As we reflect on our past, we prepare for our future. Just as each practice prepares an athlete for the next competition, each moment in our life prepares us for the next and for all those to come.
 Today is a new day; a day to start things off right, a day to change our stars. But it is also a day to remember those that we’ve lost, and to pay homage to their memories. It is a day to learn from our past mistakes and to reflect on the lessons that life has taught us.  It is a time for us to have a new beginning, a new start, a new and clean slate. It is a time to start over. New Years is a chance for redemption, and that is the greatest gift of all.
 This New Year’s I hope that you remember what this time is about. Take the chance to start over. Take the chance to do good in the world. We need more of it. Be someone’s miracle or dream come true. Grant a wish.  Love someone. Be a light in a world so often filled with despair, and turmoil, and darkness. In the words of John Rzeznik, “Tonight’s the night the world begins again.”  So wherever you find yourself this New Year’s, I wish you a happy and hope filled New Year. May 2013 be better than ever before.

Wednesday, May 9, 2012

Unanswered prayers

The topic of unanswered prayers has been on my mind as of late. Its funny, I used to hope and pray, beg, plead, and negotiate for a particular outcome in matters that have arisen in my life. I used to believe that somehow, someway, if those outcomes could come to fruition, then my life would magically become happy, and that I would be fulfilled and satisfied. Well, as you can imagine, a lot of those prayers went unanswered, or so I believed. It now seems to me that had those prayers been answered in the way I'd wanted them to, I'd be a lot less happy than I am now. So, in a way, if happiness was what my prayers were truly about, then it seems as if they were indeed answered. Its a strange feeling to know that you were wrong about your own personal feelings and desires, but nonetheless, its one that I seem to be growing happily accustomed to. I guess these experiences are to become a testament to me of Divine wisdom.

"Be still and know that I am God." Psalm 46:10